The Law of Attraction
Like attracts like… an old adage that we have all come to accept… but have we? Do we really understand what this means and how it applies in our lives? I think not. If we did, we wouldn’t have near the amount of suffering that exists today on this planet.
One of the ways that I am able to read for people is that I have learned over the years to notice the flow of energy in and around a person or situation… and having a basic understanding of the dynamics of energy – and the Law of Attraction – it becomes relatively easy to see where things are heading for the person – and what the likely outcomes are….
Creating the life you want is really just a matter of understanding the basic physics
My sister, Paula, the psychologist in the family, was the first to twig me to the need to understand how physics applied to my work as a psychic. She stopped me in my tracks one day some 15 years ago when I got talking about positive thinking. “This positive thinking, self-talking movement is making me angry. I have seen too many patients who have made their lives worse with those techniques.” Fortunately, I am a psychic and skilled at reading energy… I knew immediately that she was sincerely concerned… when I followed her thought through, I saw immediately that the problem was all the focus on thought… feelings, heart and actions must be aligned with the thought in order for the positive thought to produce the positive results anticipated.
For years now, I have helped my clients to make better progress in their lives by teaching them to understand the Law of Attraction, and specifically to manage their vibrational frequencies… working with their thoughts and feelings to maintain a high frequency with loving joyful thoughts. So I was ecstatic to find that Lynn Grabhorn in Excuse Me, Your Life is Waiting : The Astonishing Power of Feelings had so wonderfully detailed the concepts I have wanted to share.
Here is an essay created from a set of excerpts from Excuse Me, Your Life is Waiting : The Astonishing Power of Feelings by Lynn Grabhorn… I am sure it will entice you to go and get the book immediately and start working with your own feelings to create a happier life.
“The truth is, in our everyday natural state, we have the sacred ability to maneuver this thing called “our life” to be any way we want it to be. Any way! Bar nothing! From a happy family to a filled-in ozone layer.
So why haven’t the zillions of books written on how to have it all, how to think and get rich, how to visualize our way to success, and how to acquire power through positive thinking shown us how to help ourselves out of this mess? Every one of those books left out the most important key of all time to life and living:
We create by feeling, not by thought!
The Law of Attraction – like attracts like- is absolute (and has nothing to do with personalities) (or luck) (or even fate). No one lives beyond his law, for it is the law of the universe. (or at least of this dimension, like what goes up must come down). It’s just that we never realized until recently that the law applies to us too. This is the law behind success or failure. It’s what causes fender-benders or fatalities. It is, to the point, what runs every waking moment of our lives.
So, if we want to turn our lives around, or bring in greater abundance, or health, or safety, or happiness of any kind, we have only to learn the simple steps of manipulating our “feelings,” and a whole new world of plenty opens up for the asking.
For instance, when we’re feeling up, filled with joy and gratitude, our emotions are sending out high frequency vibrations that will magnetize only good stuff back to us, meaning that anything with the same high vibratory frequency that matches what we’re sending out. Like attracts like.
On the other hand, when we’re experiencing anything that joy isn’t, such as fear, worry, guilt, or even mild concern, those emotions are sending out low frequency vibrations. Since low frequencies are every bit as magnetic as high frequencies, they’re only going to attract cruddy stuff back to us, meaning anything of that same low frequency that will cause us to feel (and vibrate) as lousy as what we’re sending out. Cruddy out, cruddy back, it’s always a vibrational match.
Crazy as that may sound, it’s high time we woke up to the fact that we are electromagnetic beings tripping around with this mind-boggling capacity to magnetize into our lives whatever in the world we desire by controlling the feelings that come from our thoughts.
But because we exist on this planet in a predominantly low frequency field of energy born of over six billion people who are vibrating more feelings of stress and fearfulness than joy, we involuntarily take in those vibrations in which we exist, we will keep recycling unpleasant outcomes into our lives day after tiresome day.
There’s no way around it; the way we feel is the way we attract. And more often than not those feelings come from our thoughts, setting up instantaneous electromagnetic chain reactions that ultimately cause things to happen, to be created, to be withheld or be destroyed .
So, once again. Our feelings go out from us in electromagnetic waves. Whatever frequency goes out will automatically attract its identical frequency, thus causing things to happen – good or bad- by finding their matching vibrations.
We may have been taught, and therefore have believed that we live at the mercy of others, or fate or luck, or chance, certainly that is what most people on this planet live by. But once you start to see the Law of Attraction in operation, you ultimately come to understand that there is no such thing as a victim. There is no good luck or bad luck, good fortune or coincidence. There is no destiny, fate or providence. That’s all victim stuff. And there is not a victim among us, only co creators in thought and feeling, powerful magnets attracting like bees to honey the matching frequency of our ever-flowing vibrations.
The real reality is we have come here to thrive, and prosper, and live this grand human experience in light-hearted joy, not in struggle and pain. We have come here to have fun while we learn, to grow without suffering, and to harvest our desires in the absolute knowledge that we can have it all once we learn how to handle our energies… meaning… our emotions.
The recipe for creating anything is really quite simple. Take good or bad feelings (meaning positive or negative vibrations), bake with varying degrees of emotion to increase magnetism, and here comes what we’ve attracted, like it or not. What we have focused on, and how we have vibrated about it, is what we have gotten… from birth.
So if we’ve been in a constant search for ways to fix all the things around us we don’t like, or even if we have allowed them to be there but still haven’t liked them, then we’ve been in a constant state of focusing of what we haven’t wanted. For years.”
If that essay isn’t enough to get your fingers walking to buy the book, Excuse Me, Your Life is Waiting : The Astonishing Power of Feelings perhaps these fascinating sub-headings will:
Four Steps to Break Out
Victim No More
What’s Wrong Is What’s Wrong
Recipe for Creation
Moldy Old Beliefs
The Torture of Wanting
Our Cherished Problems
Never, Never Face Reality
Conditions Don’t Mean a Thing
The Magic of Appreciation
Be in Love
Passion is Creation
Screw Old Beliefs
The Universe as Sales Manager
The Culprit is Blame
Our Mirror, the Globe
I urge you to make this book one of the must reads in your private library… and to get working on your feelings today… here is a perfect example of how magical it can be.
My son Pat got to his dark place this summer, feeling very bad about not being able to find the job he wants. He stopped eating, was losing weight, got sick, very depressed and then very angry. So angry he put his hand through a window, accidentally, but it was a wake up call for all of us. Pat is 35, developmentally disabled, easily frustrated… I understood what he was going through but had not wanted to interfere… until he hurt himself. The day after the accident, I said, “Enough, Pat. I’m not having you black around the house any more. You know that if you keep putting out bad energy, that’s what you’re getting back, so stop it! You have to shake this off and now! Focus on how much better things are for you and me now.” I then bribed him, promised him something I knew he wanted, if he’d get himself out of his basement apartment and do something good for himself that night, I didn’t care what it was… To my surprise, he got it, got busy cleaning up his space and then went out with his friends for coffee. The next morning he was called to do a delivery on a job he thought he’d lost a few weeks earlier. That afternoon his therapist called and set up a time to get together with him, then a neighbor paid him well to do a small amount of yardwork. I hugged him big time that evening, took him out to dinner and made a celebration out of his turnaround… he hasn’t gone back to his black place since – he is at work as I write, not the job he wants, but he’ll get there.
So, if you’re not where you want in life, do what Pat did that night… pull yourself up by the bootstraps, stop generating the negative feelings, focus on what is good in your life… and let the magic start!
Lynn Grabhorn in her book gives you a lot of good ideas to help you shift gears as Pat did… do yourself a big favour, buy the book and do her 30-day program. You’ll never look back…At Amazon.com: Excuse Me, Your Life is Waiting : The Astonishing Power of Feelings
The more I listen, the more I notice, the easier it gets to navigate my way through life…. And the more I AM. Danielle, Global Psychics Inc.