Think you’re unlucky? Is life just one big disappointment? Things falling apart around you? Is there a big dark cloud following you around, just waiting to rain on your parade? Then read on… there IS something you can do to change your luck!!!!
Avoid The “Jinx” and Curse” Scams
It’s so much easier to set the blame outside ourselves when things go wrong. If someone else did it to us, if we are just plain unlucky, then we don’t have to take much responsibility for our bad luck – or for changing things, or ourselves.
Too bad, because the truth is that only in extremely rare circumstances are we ever victims of anything more than our own beliefs, fears and unloving actions.
The 90’s has seen a tremendous increase in the number of psychics, astrologers, new age, and other ‘metaphysicians’ offering a wide variety of services to the general public. Most of these practitioners are honestly concerned for their clients and sincere about their work, but a few will prey on those who feel they have been jinxed. Don’t be one of them. You can’t pay to have a jinx or curse removed… while paying a legitimate energy worker to help you clear the negative energy from your space can be very useful for helping you engineer a shift, no professional in this field will talk about it as “removing a jinx”, none will charge an extraordinary fee for the work, nor offer to light candles on your behalf, and none will suggest that they are doing all the work… all will tell you that ultimately you are responsible for your own luck and your own happiness in life – something that comes from within.
At the end of the day, it is up to you to invoke, power and sustain your own healing!
Luck Is A State Of Mind!! And This Is How It Works …
Luck is a state of mind – the more you say “I’m not lucky”, the more unlucky you will be… the more you trust that you will have all the luck you need, the more you say “I am LUCKY!”, the more lucky you will be… For example, for a long while, I thought I wasn’t lucky – I rarely won anything – but when I looked at my life, goodness, I realized that I have been extremely lucky – in friends, in career, in family… do you understand what I’m saying here? Interestingly, the more I perceive myself as lucky in life, the more I see the richness in my life, the more comes to me, and I’ve even won some money here and there in the last few years…
You can change your luck, just by choosing to be lucky, to be loving, not only of others but of yourself…
There was a long period in my life where I really felt jinxed. Amongst other things that happened in that period, I left a very intense relationship, my house burned down, we lost everything except what we were wearing, I had my fourth spinal fusion, was told I’d never fully recover and would need to have this horrendous operation several more times before I died, and I was so close to bankruptcy I was afraid to pick up the phone. And that’s not all of it!!! I hate to think of the rest… my life just seemed to go from bad to worse, and then worse yet. I just wanted to crawl in a hole somewhere. That was the first time I hit one of those black holes in life…
How did I turn my life around? Well, it took a lot of work – mostly inner work, on my attitude to life, on my expectations, and then it required a deep willingness to accept and then act on the purpose, the lessons, in the painful experiences. I burned off a lot of old karma with that pain! It took me almost 20 years to recognize that what was really wrong was that I was off course, trapped in my fear, doing work that really wasn’t appropriate for me in this lifetime… and that I had some “dues to pay”, karmic debts to clear. When I willingly “went into service”, chose work that I love and valued, when I really began loving myself and my life, the “jinx” disappeared.
So it can be for you. Change your attitude to life – and you will change your life… it is that easy… start releasing all that negativity, anger or resentment in you, and then commit yourself to a program of “positive action”… don’t wait for miracles to come to you, create them yourself! Define what it is you need to do to start pulling out of your downward slide – start with just one little thing you can do to fix things or make a fresh start… then take a step, a baby step, and then another… and “keep your pecker up” – keep smiling and searching for the joy in each moment and before you know it, you’ll find that you have a lot of good reasons to smile!
Following are several letters from clients who complained of being jinxed and wanted to know what they could do about it. You’ll find some good suggestions in our responses. Fascinating that these are all from men named Kevin… I was amazed when I put this page together and saw the names on the letters I’d selected… as you’ll see, these are all men in different circumstances… maybe the name Kevin is jinxed????)
About Being Jinxed …
Thank you for taking time to read this, it is with some trepidation that I write. I take part in motorsports in the U.K. and, for some time I have never been able to finish an event, leading to the assumption that I have been either cursed or “jinxed”. Are there any ways of removing curses or jinxes? Other things in life keep going against me as well, losing a home, money matters… these are just a couple of examples. Please do not think that this is a crank letter, I am seriously worried by this. I would appreciate any comments or advice you have, with thanks Kevin Haworth
Dear Kevin, I can understand your concern… and yes, in a way it is possible to be “jinxed” – I’ve felt that way myself at some points in my life… First of all, if you are part of a culture that has believed in curses or jinxes, you can be open to “familial” curses – old hates that somehow affect our energy even when we are long-removed from them… that said, the only way we can be affected by these jinxes is when we get down on ourselves and life… from the sounds of it, your performance in motorsports is being affected by what’s going on in your personal life… in effect, you have jinxed yourself with your own fears and anxieties about your ability to perform in life… and if you are using the sport in any way as an escape from what is confronting you personally, you will be bound to fail – it is the dynamic of the energy you are working with that creates the failure. To change the situation, to improve your performance on the track, you must also improve your personal track record – start working on your self-esteem, on reprogramming your subconscious with loving, approving, accepting thoughts and you’ll find yourself being a lot more successful… and stand up and face what’s going wrong in your life, deal with the issues one at a time… you have to start playing a mind game with yourself – and to go so deep with the game that you are able to reprogram your emotions and your attitude to life… I hate to say it Kevin, but you’ve taken on a “loser attitude” and until you can shift that energy, you will be faced with the same problems over and over again… It is the attitude that is jinxing you… The upside of the story is that you CAN change this, you can stop jinxing yourself with love and acceptance… Hope these notes are useful to you – you might find that a reading is worth your time… we have an excellent psychologist on staff who is also a wonderful psychic… Geri may be able to give you some valuable insights on how you can become a winner… Lotsa LLLove, Danielle
Another Jinx Fraud
Tonight, I have searched around the internet to see articles on fraud psychics. I’m only nineteen years old. For the past 2 years, I have been to seven psychics. they all told me that when I was a baby someone put a spell on my family and I had to pay money to remove it and to bring my ex-boyfriend back in my life. However, all told me that the was negativity that drawn us apart. Honestly, he has somewhat been there for me. He still calls only once a month but he still remain contact with me. All I ever wanted to know was whether or not we will be together and why he still wants me in his life. I have paid so much money to have this answer revealed but haven’t suceeded at it. He called me for the holidays and he is going to play basketball in portland . I’m now going to put our relationship in GODS hands. I hope thats its meant to be. Your website has helped me and now my mind is somewhat at ease. Please c ontinue to help others. U are a true gem and including your staff. I have truly been blessed today because I was going to committ sucide tonight. Love, Simone
Some day, and I hope it comes soon for you, you will look back at this time and be grateful for all the lessons that this drama has taught you. It can be so easy to try to find your answers through someone else’s “wisdom”. You are learning about boundaries and trying to push, maybe too hard, for a quick resolution with only your desired outcome. Be easy with your life and it will flow the way it should. Maybe there is someone else you need to be with as a life partner even though you “think” Curtis is the one. You are soooo young to bind your whole life around a life with Curtis. I have tried too many times to count to pray and wish for certain boyfriends to stay with me or come back into my life only to regret that choice in the end. Be careful what you wish and pray for. Sometimes it’s enough to pray for the strength to get through the day. Put no limits or perimeters on how you want God to bless you.
Be easy with yourself and stop giving power to the thought form of a “curse”. That is what makes you anxious and fearful isn’t it? That is how a curse gets fed. Just stop believing and it will stop coloring your life.
You’ll make it! I know you will. Love, Laura
A Cleansing Bath Spell in Response to a Cry for Help
I had noticed back in 1994 in college that things were “right”. I was a sophomore in college and was doing well, dating and having good grades. I grew up in the church, accepted the Lord and Savior Jesus Christ at an early age. Could is be that by not going to church once a week could have effected my life in a negative way? Also, I moved back home in 1995 because I was unnaturally depressed. I no longer wanted to continue Nursing and had a difficult time in school concentrating. My family also had some problems that no one seems to understand. Especially with my mom, sister and her children. My dad didn’t seem to be affected by it. I got into a huge debt paying a “psychic” to help me and things did get better for a while, but there was always something bad happening. I once told someone that I couldn’t get through half a week without something bad happening. I would like to get help and would do anything that to help myself, as long as no fraud is involved. I have no one to talk to about this, and I am very fearful about being around people, fearing that it could rub off on them. I am never truly happy. My happiness comes and goes like the seasons. Can you please help me. IJN
Your letter touched me so I felt I should respond. Sometimes when we are brought up in a very strict fundamental religious family we carry a feeling of doom and gloom around us. I had a friend who came from a very strict upbringing yet when she was older she came into her own spiritual gifts and is quite psychic. The problem she has is shaking the fire and brimstone backlash of using her gifts. I watch her set up huge obstacles in front of herself where they are not meant to be.
You have not added your birthdate so I cannot see what is going on in that respect but I can see that there is a deep part within you that still follows the faith that you were brought up with. How could you not when as a young child it was drilled in you that if you don’t do this, this will happen. You are like any other person.
Now that I have provided you with this information, it is time to give yourself permission to do the things you are meant to do. Allow yourself to be happy. Start over. When something happens that feels like you are being punished for something. Analyse it at nauseum. Find out where it your life you have experienced this feeling and how you got through it or didn’t get through it and how you are going to get through it now.
Get some positive thinking subliminal tapes. Listen to them daily. Do affirmations. Get and read the book the power of positive thinking. Check out Joseph Murphy’s book, the Power of Your Subconscious Mind! Everything in our lives is directly related to our thoughts. When we think doom and gloom that’s what we get. When we think that things are surely looking up and they are getting better. This again is what we get. Our thoughts create our reality.
Self-sabotage is a huge step to get over. It hurts us to think that we are actually putting stones in front of us that do not belong there but this is what you are doing.
God created us in his likeness. In my eyes he doesn’t make mistakes. So why would God set you up for disappointment when you are one with the God energy?
Stop today your negative programming. Make a positive goal list and give it dates to come true. Be extreme, have fun.
If it feels right for you do the following cleansing bath that I got out of a book (I can’t remember which one). I do it every new moon to get rid of negative energy, self created or otherwise (again if this doesn’t feel right don’t do it).
Unhex or Unvex Yourself with this CLEANSING BATH SPELL
Ingredients: 9 bay leaves, 1 lemon, flour, 3 handfuls of sea salt
This recipe is used to unhex or unvex yourself. It does not matter whether the negative energy is coming from an internal or an external source. It can also be used to remove any sort of obstacle from your path.
Simply add NINE bay leaves, the juice of a whole lemon, three fistfuls of sea salt and a sprinkling of flour to a full tub. Three and nine are numbers of completion. You want to make sure the cleansing is thorough.
Bay is ruled by the sun and is used for protection, and purification. In ancient Greece, the priestesses of the Delphi oracle would chew bay leaves to open their psychic channels. As you sit in the tub, chew on a bay leaf and meditate on the source of your problems. Answers or messages should come. In Rome, bay was used to ward off evil and is still burned or scattered in modern exorcism rites. During the Middle Ages, bay was used to protect against witchcraft. You can carry three leaves in your pocket if you feel someone is actively working magic against you. Flour is used for purification and stabilization. The combination of lemon and salt is used to drive away evil. You must sit in the tub for at least ten minutes and immerse yourself completely three times. Do not towel off but allow yourself to air-dry. I hope this helps you to give yourself permission to become the powerful happy optimistic person you are meant to be. Take care, Sharon
I just wanted to give you some feedback on the jinx article and the cleansing bath. I felt for a long time that I was in the middle of the worst run of luck in the world, everything went wrong for me. I had the worst luck with contracts always getting high pressure low pay roles, relationships were a nightmare, money as well, basically you name it. This dark period was for around 6-7 years and was in spite of hard work and fairly positive attitude. I finally did some searching on the internet and found your site after thinking maybe I was cursed, I had the bath and immediately felt a change. Now I know you could say its all in the mind and physcological but since then in the last 18 months I have had great contracts, paid of my debts, now looking at property to buy in the next 4 months, I have met a great lady and everything is “happy days” in my life, no pressure and no stress. I can place the time it all changed to when I took the bath, and I was a little sceptical at the time, but not any more. I dont know what it was, a mental shift or anything else but it really worked for me so thank you so much, it made a difference in my life. Kindest Regards James
Being Blocked, “jinxed” Can Be a Signal To Change Direction…
Hello, my name is Kevin. I want to ask you for your help. I realize you are very busy but I need help very bad. I am trying to play professional football, this is my life long dream. I have the talent to play in the NFL, but I cannot get a break. I get so close and nothing happens. I really do not know what to do. I do believe in GOD and I have questions about is this His will for me and all that? This situation is really really getting me down. I really don’t know what I am asking from you but please any advice you give I would appreciate. My whole situation is so weird. Sometimes when I really sit down and pray for a door to open for me to get a chance to play in the NFL, when I go outside I see one single blackbird. Every time I go out after praying about football, I see this black bird. Like I said I know it sounds crazy but it really happens. I am not at all saying that this has some sort of impact on my success or anything at all. I just wondered about some sort of insight into this matter by way of your talent . I thank you greatly for your time and help.–Kevin P
Well dear, it seems you have managed to curse yourself – the way to get round this is to really start thinking positive about yourself and your life… I hate to tell you, but my sense is that the blackbird is telling you that a career in football is not necessarily your path in life… I have a sense there’s something else in life that’s really important for you to put some energy into and that football is just the prep for something that is more relevant to your soul’s growth… be willing to accept what is, to enjoy each moment as it is, to work in the moment at improving your skill and trust that the future will unfold to your best advantage, no matter what… if it doesn’t include a pro career in football, it will include something else and the effort you put into the sport now will pay off no matter what… don’t be so hung up on the outcome here, hon, it’s likely to look a lot different than you think… and you can’t spend all of your life feeling bad about yourself… that’s the most important message from the blackbird… It’s about choosing to be happy, no matter what is your right path…
PS, According to Ted Andrews in his book Animal Speak, ISBN 0-87542-028-1, blackbird is a symbol of omens and mysticism, color of fear and promise – and they are associated with St. Kevin! “if the blackbird comes into your life, you will open to new surprises and to a new understanding of the forces of Nature as they begin to migrate into your life.” Best wishes and lotsa LLLove, Danielle’
Everything Good Turns Sour….
Hello, It’s against my religion to talk to psychics, but I am curious about happenings around my house that have been going on for about 10-11 yrs. I have recurring problems with different appliances in the house ie. faucets, washing machines, dryers, stoves. And unfortunately anything that is new will come into my house and in a short amount of time is marred or torn up. Also anything that I pray for and receive, in a short time turns into something I wish I didn’t have. I asked about this to someone and he mentioned maybe I was jinxed. I don’t believe in jinxes but I do believe in the spiritual realm. Do you get any enquiries about these kind of happenings? Kevin K, Illinois
The jinx is real, but it is in your own mind, a product of the denied fear, anger and resentment that you have held over the years… when we are holding a lot of negative thoughts in our minds and our attitude to life is a bit down, these kinds of things will happen around us, especially when there are young children or anyone with emotional or mental disturbances around… What happens is that these denied thoughts and feelings take on so much energy in our spaces that they create kinetic activity in our environment, usually of a destructive nature. Some say it is because you have some lower astral bodies attached to your space and this may very well be true – but they get there by resonating with the lower vibrational frequencies in you… the correct “treatment” in this case is for you to actively move towards being more loving within yourself, for yourself and your world… you create your own reality through your thoughts, feelings and loving actions – it seems to me all this activity around you is attempting to tell you that you need to get a grip on your negative thoughts and feelings, that you are unhappy with what you are creating and need to reassess – you’ve been ignoring or at least refusing to deal with the basic issues – until you start to shift from within, to trust and love more, I’m afraid you may find this “jinx” continues… so get into loving yourself and your life! Hope these notes help, lotsa LLLove, Danielle
About Having a Loser Attitude…
Dear Danielle, Thank you for taking time to read this, it is with some trepidation that I write. I take part in motorsports in the U.K. and, for some time I have never been able to finish an event, leading to the assumption that I have been either cursed or “jinxed”. Are there any ways of removing curses or jinxes? Other things in life keep going against me as well, losing a home, money matters… these are just a couple of examples. Please do not think that this is a crank letter, I am seriously worried by this. I would appreciate any comments or advice you have, with thanks Kevin Haworth
I can understand your concern… and yes, in a way it is possible to be “jinxed” – I’ve felt that way myself at some points in my life… First of all, if you are part of a culture that has believed in curses or jinxes, you can be open to “familial” curses – old hates that somehow affect our energy even when we are long-removed from them… that said, the only way we can be affected by these jinxes is when we get down on ourselves and life… from the sounds of it, your performance in motorsports is being affected by what’s going on in your personal life… in effect, you have jinxed yourself with your own fears and anxieties about your ability to perform in life… and if you are using the sport in any way as an escape from what is confronting you personally, you will be bound to fail – it is the dynamic of the “escapist” or “prove it to you” energy that creates the failure.
To change the situation, to improve your performance on the track, you must also improve your personal track record – start working on your self-esteem, on reprogramming your subconscious with loving, approving, accepting thoughts and you’ll find yourself being a lot more successful… and stand up and face what’s going wrong in your life, deal with the issues one at a time… you have to start playing a mind game with yourself – and to go so deep with the game that you are able to reprogram your emotions and your attitude to life…
I hate to say it Kevin, but you’ve taken on a “loser attitude” and until you can shift that energy, you will be faced with the same problems over and over again… It is the attitude that is jinxing you… The upside of the story is that you CAN change this, you can stop jinxing yourself with love and acceptance… Hope these notes are useful to you – you might find that a reading is worth your time… we have an excellent psychologist on staff who is also a wonderful psychic… Geri may be able to give you some valuable insights on how you can become a winner… Lotsa LLLove, Danielle
A Bad Attitude Can Infect Your Life
Hi. I was just on your website and you mentioned that curses don’t exist. How I wish that was true. Unfortunately, my mother ate some food that was cursed and it has affected my love life. I was a teenager at the time and now I am in my 30’s and I’m not bad looking. No man has ever fallen in love with me and no one seems to love me. I am boyfriendless at this very moment and have been for a while. I only wish I could tell you that it’s all in my head. When it keeps happening over and over again and you’re in your 30’s and when you know that you are nice to everyone, you know that you’ve been cursed. The question is? How do you have it removed permanently from your life. My life has been nothing but lonely and loveless. What should I do?
This is not about a curse dear, but about your attitude to yourself and life and the beliefs you are holding about yourself. You have fallen into your “nots” and as long as you stay there, it will be difficult to attract a love into your life… we can’t expect a man to come and relieve our loneliness or make us happy – that has to come from within… and if you spend your life loving not only others but especially yourself, you will find your life filled with love… the trouble is that are looking for love to come from outside yourself… there’s a very good book by Dr Joseph Murphy “The Power of Your Subconscious Mind ” – get it and spend some serious time working with the affirmations in it… this will help you a lot to change your energy… and also look up our Practical Magic articles and find the one on the clearing bath – this will be very helpful. Lotsa LLLove, Danielle